
You're Not You
7.3
52%
56
7.4
A meticulous pianist with ALS and a chaotic aspiring singer discover unexpected strength in a fiercely honest caregiver bond.
Ember's analysis
- MoodSomber
- EnergyEnergetic
- PacingMeasured
- IntensityStrong
- ComplexityEasy to follow
- ViolenceNone
More about the film
Overview
When an accomplished pianist is diagnosed with the devastating and incurable disease ALS, she hires a directionless young woman who becomes her full-time caregiver. Complete opposites, the strangers form a life-changing bond inspiring each other to live life to fullest, while being brought together by the most challenging of circumstances.
What critics said
Critics broadly found the two lead performances compelling but judged the adaptation inconsistently satisfying and emotionally conventional.
What sets it apart
- Kate and Bec develop a fiercely honest relationship through daily assistance, confrontation, and mutual dependence.
- Kate's ALS diagnosis forces her to reconsider marriage, autonomy, regret, and what she wants from life.
- The central dramatic arc follows Kate and Bec as each woman changes through their unconventional bond.
- The incurable disease storyline and emphasis on devastating emotional consequences place the film firmly in tearjerker territory.
Films like You're Not You, and why
- The IntouchablesShared caregiver patient relationship, emotional transformation, disability drama, and unconventional friendship.
- Me Before YouShared intimate illness narrative, female-centered emotional drama, and poignant confrontation with mortality.
- The Fault in Our StarsShared terminal illness, caregiving, friendship, and emotionally direct tearjerker tone.
Movie Details
- Director
- George C. Wolfe
- Release Date
- 2014-10-10
- Runtime
- 104 min
- Rating
- 7.4 / 10 (867)
Common questions
- What is You're Not You about?
- A meticulous pianist with ALS and a chaotic aspiring singer discover unexpected strength in a fiercely honest caregiver bond.
- What is You're Not You like to watch?
- Ember's analysis rates the pacing of You're Not You as measured, its intensity as strong and its storytelling as easy to follow.
- Is You're Not You violent?
- No — Ember's analysis finds no violence in You're Not You.
- What did critics think of You're Not You?
- Critics broadly found the two lead performances compelling but judged the adaptation inconsistently satisfying and emotionally conventional.
- Which films are like You're Not You?
- Films with a similar feel include The Intouchables, Me Before You, and The Fault in Our Stars.
- How long is You're Not You?
- You're Not You runs 104 minutes.
- Where can I watch You're Not You?
- In United States, You're Not You streams on Amazon Prime Video, Peacock Premium, Hoopla, YouTube Free, Plex, Plex Player, Plex Channel, Amazon Prime Video Free with Ads, Lionsgate+ Amazon Channel, Amazon Prime Video with Ads, Peacock Premium Plus, Tubi TV, Amazon MX Player.
Cast
- George C. WolfeDirector
- Hilary SwankKate
- Emmy RossumBec
- Josh DuhamelEvan
- Stephanie BeatrizJill
- Julian McMahonLiam
- Ali LarterKeely
- Loretta DevineMarilyn
- Andrea SavageAlyssa
- Jason RitterWil
- Gerald DowneyBill





















