
Us and Them
7.4
60%
7.5
Two former lovers confront the tenderness, regret, and economic hardship that shaped their separation when fate brings them together again.
Ember's analysis
- MoodMixed
- EnergyEnergetic
- PacingMeasured
- IntensityStrong
- ComplexityEasy to follow
- ViolenceNone
More about the film
Overview
A chance encounter reignites a love story that time almost forgot.
What critics said
Critics broadly viewed it as a beautifully filmed and emotionally effective love story elevated by strong performances and its attention to economic realities and family dynamics.
What sets it apart
- Jianqing and Xiaoxiao's relationship deteriorates as practical hardship and uncertain prospects strain their young love.
- The story moves between the couple's early relationship and their meeting again ten years later.
- Jianqing's father and his relationship with Xiaoxiao provide a major emotional dimension beyond the central romance.
- The film uses differing visual moods for the couple's past and their later reunion, reinforcing memory and emotional distance.
Films like Us and Them, and why
- Past Livesbittersweet relationship drama about love, separation, memory, and the pressure of economic realities
- In the Mood for Lovemelancholic lovers-reunited story shaped by missed chances and changing life circumstances
- One Dayemotionally direct romance focused on young love, regret, and the passage of time
- Blue Valentineslow burn romantic drama where affection is tested by class and practical hardship
Movie Details
- Director
- René Liu
- Release Date
- 2018-04-28
- Runtime
- 120 min
- Rating
- 7.5 / 10 (181)
Common questions
- What is Us and Them about?
- Two former lovers confront the tenderness, regret, and economic hardship that shaped their separation when fate brings them together again.
- What is Us and Them like to watch?
- Ember's analysis rates the pacing of Us and Them as measured, its intensity as strong and its storytelling as easy to follow.
- Is Us and Them violent?
- No — Ember's analysis finds no violence in Us and Them.
- What did critics think of Us and Them?
- Critics broadly viewed it as a beautifully filmed and emotionally effective love story elevated by strong performances and its attention to economic realities and family dynamics.
- Which films are like Us and Them?
- Films with a similar feel include Past Lives, In the Mood for Love, One Day, and Blue Valentine.
- How long is Us and Them?
- Us and Them runs 120 minutes.
- Where can I watch Us and Them?
- In United States, Us and Them streams on Netflix, Netflix Standard with Ads.
Cast
- René LiuDirector
- Jing BoranLin Jianqing
- Zhou DongyuFang Xiaoxiao
- Tian ZhuangzhuangJianqing's Father
- Qu ZhemingChen Dewen
- Zhang ZixianJianqing's Neighbor
- Liu QihengZheng Huan
- Su XiaomingMao
- Li DongSun Yilong



















